This thread... http://ift.tt/1qHkQ3N... reminded me of something that happened while my husband and I were in a serious dating relationship.
When I met my husband, he had a long-time female friend. Turns out that the two of them briefly dated long before we met. Both of them realized that their dating relationship would not turn into anything serious, and so they chose to remain friends.
My husband *boyfriend at that time* and I were in our forties. His female friend was in her late thirties.
At one point my husband told his female friend that he was in a serious dating relationship. He also introduced me to her. She also had a male friend whom she went out with. All 4 of us would go out to dinner or spend time at her place.
One time while all 4 of us were at her place she mentioned that she wished she had a man in her life.
A couple of days later my husband *boyfriend at that time*received a text from her requesting that he come over to her place alone on a Friday night to 1) hang stuff from her ceiling, 2) have dinner with her, 3) watch tv or a movie, 4) stay up late talking, 5) sleep on her couch while she sleeps in her bed, and 6) go out for breakfast the following morning.
When he told me about the text, I asked him why was it necessary for the other activities when the main reason why she wanted him to come over was to hang stuff from her ceiling.
I let him know that I felt uncomfortable about the entire situation.
He cancelled their get together. He found out a couple of weeks later that she was mad at him and that she was not talking to him.
My questions are...
What did his female friend want with all of these activities?
What was she expecting to happen?
When I met my husband, he had a long-time female friend. Turns out that the two of them briefly dated long before we met. Both of them realized that their dating relationship would not turn into anything serious, and so they chose to remain friends.
My husband *boyfriend at that time* and I were in our forties. His female friend was in her late thirties.
At one point my husband told his female friend that he was in a serious dating relationship. He also introduced me to her. She also had a male friend whom she went out with. All 4 of us would go out to dinner or spend time at her place.
One time while all 4 of us were at her place she mentioned that she wished she had a man in her life.
A couple of days later my husband *boyfriend at that time*received a text from her requesting that he come over to her place alone on a Friday night to 1) hang stuff from her ceiling, 2) have dinner with her, 3) watch tv or a movie, 4) stay up late talking, 5) sleep on her couch while she sleeps in her bed, and 6) go out for breakfast the following morning.
When he told me about the text, I asked him why was it necessary for the other activities when the main reason why she wanted him to come over was to hang stuff from her ceiling.
I let him know that I felt uncomfortable about the entire situation.
He cancelled their get together. He found out a couple of weeks later that she was mad at him and that she was not talking to him.
My questions are...
What did his female friend want with all of these activities?
What was she expecting to happen?
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