Hi Everyone
I think it was about two years ago I found this site. I poured out my heart, and I got some great advice.
So here's my update.
DD was 2 1/2 years ago. Sine then lots of ups and downs, and my WS has done her bit in trying to reconcile...apart from talking. I've seen love and care, but few words regarding the past.
This I think, has stopped me totally healing. As a result of her A, a lot of my relationships with family and friends broke down, either through my willingness to stick with her, or my humiliation that prevented me from being the happy man that people liked to be around.
So my life has changed, and from where I'm sitting not for the better.
I've worked hard and done well. I love being with my kids, and of course they want their parents together.
Inside, I don't feel fulfilled. I think I should move on. BUT, to do this I will suffer a drop in living standards, I'll not live with my children, and I will probably be lonely.
The upside to all this is that I will be ME. I will have the chance to meet my soul-mate, and I will have done something decisive about a situation I could never for-see or control.
So here's my question. Are my thoughts wrong? If you went through similar turmoil, how did you sort it.
Thanks for your help.
I think it was about two years ago I found this site. I poured out my heart, and I got some great advice.
So here's my update.
DD was 2 1/2 years ago. Sine then lots of ups and downs, and my WS has done her bit in trying to reconcile...apart from talking. I've seen love and care, but few words regarding the past.
This I think, has stopped me totally healing. As a result of her A, a lot of my relationships with family and friends broke down, either through my willingness to stick with her, or my humiliation that prevented me from being the happy man that people liked to be around.
So my life has changed, and from where I'm sitting not for the better.
I've worked hard and done well. I love being with my kids, and of course they want their parents together.
Inside, I don't feel fulfilled. I think I should move on. BUT, to do this I will suffer a drop in living standards, I'll not live with my children, and I will probably be lonely.
The upside to all this is that I will be ME. I will have the chance to meet my soul-mate, and I will have done something decisive about a situation I could never for-see or control.
So here's my question. Are my thoughts wrong? If you went through similar turmoil, how did you sort it.
Thanks for your help.
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