Dear Forum folks,
I am writing to ask about a situation I found myself recently and just thought it was a little strange.
It was my husbands birthday and his brother had planned for a brewery tasting so me his brother his friend and him (hubby) went. The event was from 12-6 but when we got there it was 1 and we stayed until 3:30ish. I guess the sun and booze really got me tired and I 'ujjed' (is this a word?) him to go home. The heat was just so hot that day and I was beered out. I figured hubby felt same cause when I got a feel to how much he wanted to stay on, it seemes (to me) like he was also ready to move on. So everything is great and we get home and he says he wants to go out with his friends. I say to him, why don't we relax and go for a romantic dinner together. I being his wife and all should come priority to his friends, no? We are even newly weds so there should be even more effort on his side. anyways so he says he wants me to come too and wants to go out (I am sooooo tired and sunbrunt, no more drinking for me please I say and let him go). In my heart I feel like he prefers his fri ends over me. Its a special day so he should be with me right? He says it is HIS bday and he is allowed to choose what to do, and had invited me. BUT i dont really feel up to it with my tiredness and all and ESPECIALLY cause I hate hanging out with 6 dudes from 7-1am. He came home at 12:30 am but I was a little hurt and angry at him cause I thought he would come home earlier to be with me...I hate staying home alone while he goes out esp since it was his bday. I want to spend time with him all the time and he needs his space where I feel we are incompatible.
Am I wrong in this situation to feel he should spend bday with me his wife vs. friends?
I am writing to ask about a situation I found myself recently and just thought it was a little strange.
It was my husbands birthday and his brother had planned for a brewery tasting so me his brother his friend and him (hubby) went. The event was from 12-6 but when we got there it was 1 and we stayed until 3:30ish. I guess the sun and booze really got me tired and I 'ujjed' (is this a word?) him to go home. The heat was just so hot that day and I was beered out. I figured hubby felt same cause when I got a feel to how much he wanted to stay on, it seemes (to me) like he was also ready to move on. So everything is great and we get home and he says he wants to go out with his friends. I say to him, why don't we relax and go for a romantic dinner together. I being his wife and all should come priority to his friends, no? We are even newly weds so there should be even more effort on his side. anyways so he says he wants me to come too and wants to go out (I am sooooo tired and sunbrunt, no more drinking for me please I say and let him go). In my heart I feel like he prefers his fri ends over me. Its a special day so he should be with me right? He says it is HIS bday and he is allowed to choose what to do, and had invited me. BUT i dont really feel up to it with my tiredness and all and ESPECIALLY cause I hate hanging out with 6 dudes from 7-1am. He came home at 12:30 am but I was a little hurt and angry at him cause I thought he would come home earlier to be with me...I hate staying home alone while he goes out esp since it was his bday. I want to spend time with him all the time and he needs his space where I feel we are incompatible.
Am I wrong in this situation to feel he should spend bday with me his wife vs. friends?
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