I've made an account purely to come here in search of advice, I've been with my girlfriend for two years. She liked me two years prior to me liking her, she put up with a lot of **** from me in terms of mistreating her and I've spent so long trying to make it up, we spent two years so happily in love, going everywhere together, we're 19.
i found out on a night out she started speaking to a friend I knew from cricket, and that's when problems started. she found him attractive but nothing was an issue at first until they began speaking everyday, she didn't want to speak to him at first but he was persistent and they ended up meeting again on a night out where they danced, and he walked her and friends home. Then on another night out, he took her to the side and told her he had feelings for her and kissed her, for two seconds. My grilfriend ran off crying, she told me about it and I was broken. Then she went to see him, to tell him that it couldn't continue as she loved me(this has not once ever been in doubt according to her) but ended up walking away in a worse situation, she couldn't do it, he sort of had her under his finger.
she was she was confused what she felt for him, but knew in the end she wanted to be with me, we didn't speak for a week as I said I couldn't. At the end of the week, she went and told him she didn't like him and that all of it has been a huge mistake, then infront of her, she came up to me and apologised and said how much she loved me..he still effects her and she slightly misses talking to him,, he went and kissed another girl,it seemed to upset her.
Then em when we spend a day happy together as if it was finally going away, she said while talking to him she went round his house because she was lonely while we weren't talking and after spending time with him they kissed again, after it happened she was so angry that she left and that was the turning point that she wanted to be wih me.
:she now is so upset, wants to be with me and sides she never met him but he still has part of her inside her,I know it will never happen again because he is a one off and someone different to who she's liked (I'm the only person ever) but it's the fact she did it all that is hurting me,
Could we ever be normal again and is this a scenario which can be forgiven?
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