At the start of university I was really close to this and would even go so far as to say that I viewed her as one of my best friend and this seemed mutual. However whenever she got drunk she would end up in the same guys bed (not having sex apparently...), but would always tell me she regretted it in the morning. Anyway 2 months later on a night out, he hit on me and ended up staying round mine after getting locked out of his flat. I refused to kiss him properly that night because of her, but when I spoke to her, she said there were no feelings and eventually me and him started seeing each other. After that we drifted away for some reason (assuming to do with him...). We'd meet up like once a month after that when before we'd see each other at least once a week.
Fast forward to this year and me and the guy stopped seeing each other. On a night out, I bumped into her and we had a little 'reunion' and decided to go for a meal the next day. I told her what happened as I still trusted her (even cried a little in front of her), and we met up a few times after for meals to catch up. The last time I saw her I knew she was seeing someone but when I asked her about her love life, she denied seeing anyone. From then onwards we didn't speak, but the guy she's dating is friends with my group of friends so on a few nights out we have been with each other. However it's like we were never even close? She didn't even wish me happy birthday, yet she wished one of my friends happy birthday?! (I know this is petty to notice but it annoyed me)
Do you think I should confront her? As I feel like I opened up to her and told her really private things and she just met up with me to be nosy. Or leave it? It's a shame because we really got on well.
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