I dont see my girlfriend that often maybe once a week, sometimes twice. That isn't always down to choice it is mainly because I work and she is in her second year at college (we are both the same age). She often complains that she wants to see me more but we haven't really seen each other more. Hopefully after her exams we might but it depends on my work.
I dont text back too fast but she is quick texter and when I dont reply all day she gets upset and I dont understand how that makes me a bad boyfriend. We skype in the evenings sometimes but its often late and one of us is ready to sleep. By that time I am quite snappy and I know it makes her upset when I snap at her but I feel like she needs to grow up and not take it personally.
She isnt into my hobbies that much. She doesnt stop me doing them but I know she doesnt like them. Last year we were meant to go on holiday together but I spent my money on my hobbies instead, and I was meant to go to a uni open day with her but I went out with mates to do the hobby with them instead. I know shes mad about this but I honestly cant understand why. I just lie and say that 'Im with family' now or something instead of telling her Im out doing my hobby because it saves arguments. She wouldnt stop me going but I know she would get blunt with me.
She also doesnt like me liking pages on facebook of models and stuff. I know shes insecure so I dont mind but I dont feel like she trusts me because I lied and said that I didnt like any but it had come up on the newsfeed that I had. Oops.
She complains that she never gets to see me and that she wishes I would just put some time aside for her but how can I when Im working and doing my hobby, there just isnt time to spare.
I do really love her and we have been together over 3 years. I dont think Im a bad boyfriend but I have the feeling she thinks I am.
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