Mid-life.

I think I've fallen victim to a mid-life crisis. Ok maybe victim is a bit much. But I'm definitely having a mid life situation. Married 13 years with 2 children 9 and 12. If I had to put it bluntly. I'm a much better mom than a wife. My children are my life. Husband? Here goes. I don't think I'm attracted to h any more. I find myself changing. I practically live at the gym because I believe in keeping fit and feeling good about myself. H does not. He could sit on the couch all day I eat healthy. He does not. Recently this bothers me more and more. Also I feel we are losing common interests. I'm bored. I will admit I have a good life my h is a great provider we have great kids great family great friends. He just doesn't want to do anything with anyone. I have to Make him basically. I enjoy doing things. But I end up at parties and functions by myself or just me and the kids as he is too tired or not in the mood. He is overweight depressed and moody. I tried talking to him but I can't make him do anything he has to want to be motivated. In the last year I've gotten more attention from men too. Not that I ask for it or act on it but for the first time in 13 years I'm noticing. I've even been asked out. Purely innocent by a man not knowing I was married etc. I wish my H would be more aware and interested but it's always the same. I'm lost. I am confused and frustrated.

In all honesty. I'm happier when he is not even around. Sad but true. Advice????

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