Okay so this is going to be a bit crazy and confusing, but I really do need all the help and advice I can get, because I just can't seem to get my head around it!
Me and this girl have known each other for a while now, we speak to each other every day, we literally go out with each other all the time. We are really close to each other and yes, I do love her and I know that she love's me, so all is good so far.
However, we are not gf and bf because we both believe that "going out" is just a status and really doesn't mean anything, it just kind of draws attention to yourself. We still do all the things a couple would do, I mean, we had a great valentines day together, but "going out" is just a status.
One day not so long ago, we were in bed together (it's not going to sound that awkward from now on) and we were literally saying everything that we felt. We were talking about the future and what will happen when we both part ways to go to different uni's
I told her that I would love to keep in contact with her, and she said the same, but I said I would happily come and visit her at the end of every semester or what not, because I really would hate to see her go from my life.
Now this is the part I have a problem with...
She told me that she is unsure about the future between us and said that we will probably never see or speak to each other again when uni starts. So I told her that that seems like the obvious case, but if both people want it that bad or really do care about each other that bad then they would make the effort to try and keep that person in their life. Don't you guys think that is true?
So to conclude, I need help with how to interpret that, we haven't fallen out over anything and she said that to me at the time when everything was so perfect between us. It has really made me sad inside because I thought that we would both be willing to make the effort to keep in contact but it seems like she doesn't even want to try!
Can anyone help me please? I really don't know what she is trying to get across, but it seems to me that after this year, it will be the end for the both of us :(
Sorry for the awfully long message, but i needed to get it off my chest
Thank you guys :)
Me and this girl have known each other for a while now, we speak to each other every day, we literally go out with each other all the time. We are really close to each other and yes, I do love her and I know that she love's me, so all is good so far.
However, we are not gf and bf because we both believe that "going out" is just a status and really doesn't mean anything, it just kind of draws attention to yourself. We still do all the things a couple would do, I mean, we had a great valentines day together, but "going out" is just a status.
One day not so long ago, we were in bed together (it's not going to sound that awkward from now on) and we were literally saying everything that we felt. We were talking about the future and what will happen when we both part ways to go to different uni's
I told her that I would love to keep in contact with her, and she said the same, but I said I would happily come and visit her at the end of every semester or what not, because I really would hate to see her go from my life.
Now this is the part I have a problem with...
She told me that she is unsure about the future between us and said that we will probably never see or speak to each other again when uni starts. So I told her that that seems like the obvious case, but if both people want it that bad or really do care about each other that bad then they would make the effort to try and keep that person in their life. Don't you guys think that is true?
So to conclude, I need help with how to interpret that, we haven't fallen out over anything and she said that to me at the time when everything was so perfect between us. It has really made me sad inside because I thought that we would both be willing to make the effort to keep in contact but it seems like she doesn't even want to try!
Can anyone help me please? I really don't know what she is trying to get across, but it seems to me that after this year, it will be the end for the both of us :(
Sorry for the awfully long message, but i needed to get it off my chest
Thank you guys :)
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