I have been married to my husband for over 9 years and though at times its been rocky, we do well. we have our fights, mainly he gets mad at me for misunderstanding him or he says that i try to control him. I am not sure, most of our fights end up both of us blowing up at each other and we calm down and talk about it. well, i am 7 months pregnant, IVF, couldnt get pregnant before and though my husband was indifferent about it, he seems happy now and keeps on saying how he wants to live for his son, he doesnt matter, usual stuff.
well, recently, he went on a trip with some co-workers, one of them a young associate that they recently hired. i was talking to him today about some charges on his credit card and one of them seemed like a purchase for 2 ppl. i asked who it was for, he said it was for the girl. i said, well, i dont think you are responsible for paying for her food, you are not her boss. he said that their manager said to keep things together and he will get reimbursed for it. I said, well, you shouldnt do this cuz this is the second time he has paid for her meal. i work but my male co workers never buy me food. anyhow, he got mad and basically was saying that he cant even breath in a room with another woman because i raise hell. yes, i am insecure about things. my father and brother in law both cheated on my mom and my sis. but should he get mad? cant he just understand that I am insecure about this and help me out? he says that he is loyal and would never cheat on me and that my insecuritie s are my problem and i should deal with them. I dont know what to do. I try talking to him but for some reason, he doesnt understand my point of view. i dont know what to do.
well, recently, he went on a trip with some co-workers, one of them a young associate that they recently hired. i was talking to him today about some charges on his credit card and one of them seemed like a purchase for 2 ppl. i asked who it was for, he said it was for the girl. i said, well, i dont think you are responsible for paying for her food, you are not her boss. he said that their manager said to keep things together and he will get reimbursed for it. I said, well, you shouldnt do this cuz this is the second time he has paid for her meal. i work but my male co workers never buy me food. anyhow, he got mad and basically was saying that he cant even breath in a room with another woman because i raise hell. yes, i am insecure about things. my father and brother in law both cheated on my mom and my sis. but should he get mad? cant he just understand that I am insecure about this and help me out? he says that he is loyal and would never cheat on me and that my insecuritie s are my problem and i should deal with them. I dont know what to do. I try talking to him but for some reason, he doesnt understand my point of view. i dont know what to do.
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