My wife's brother is trying to ruin my marriage. I admit what I did was wrong but then again, nobody is perfect. He is gay and and I am straight. I've been married for 4 years to his sister and he has never had a stable long term relationship. I know both him and my wife from college and I shared a apartment with him for about 6 months. There was a time when I didn't know what I wanted in life sexually. At the time, I was dating his sister. I thought maybe I was gay or bisexual because I would sometimes get aroused by men. I decided to talk to him about it since he is in that world and knows a lot about these things. To make a long story short, I experimented with him. We gave each other bjs and I let him sleep with me. This was a phase that I was going through and it only lasted a few months. He knew at the time that I was still dating his sister and yet he still slept with me. I eventually moved on and married his sister. I believed that being bi was n ot for me and I love his sister too much.
I've been clean for over 4 years. Never slept with anyone else be it a man or woman. The only problem is I got drunk 2 weeks ago at his house and I ended up giving him a bj. If I was not wasted then this would not have happened. Now he wants to have a continued relationship behind my wife's back. I told him that I don't feel like that about him and now he wants to tell my wife everything. He knows things about my body that only my wife knows. She knows that he is gay and a *****. I'm afraid he might tell her and ruin everything. Why oh why can't people just mind their own freaking business. Anyway, sorry to go off on a tangent but I need help getting out of this. The ***** may be bluffing but I'm not about to let him ruin my marriage. Should I just tell my wife ahead of time to lesson the blow? She does know that at some point in my life, I experimented with men. She just doesn't know it was while we were together and she doesn't know it was with her brother. She also doesn't know about the bj that I gave him recently.
I've been clean for over 4 years. Never slept with anyone else be it a man or woman. The only problem is I got drunk 2 weeks ago at his house and I ended up giving him a bj. If I was not wasted then this would not have happened. Now he wants to have a continued relationship behind my wife's back. I told him that I don't feel like that about him and now he wants to tell my wife everything. He knows things about my body that only my wife knows. She knows that he is gay and a *****. I'm afraid he might tell her and ruin everything. Why oh why can't people just mind their own freaking business. Anyway, sorry to go off on a tangent but I need help getting out of this. The ***** may be bluffing but I'm not about to let him ruin my marriage. Should I just tell my wife ahead of time to lesson the blow? She does know that at some point in my life, I experimented with men. She just doesn't know it was while we were together and she doesn't know it was with her brother. She also doesn't know about the bj that I gave him recently.
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