Some of you folks may remember me from a post I made about 6 or 7 weeks ago regarding my marriage. Well thanks to the tips regarding the books to read, i changed my behaviours and as a result my wife has improved her behaviour a lot and is now more connected to me.
The one thing that is still plaguing me is her game, I've mentioned several times that I feel her game has priority over most things including me. She wont text much if she's playing, doesn't watch the kids much which has been almost lethal to our youngest rather recently... she also doesn't engage in conversation whilst she's playing so isolates herself from myself and the kids verbally.
Another effect this is having is that she wont make love until the weekends because she can sleep in and doesn't have to worry. She would rather game until she's tired, come to bed and then asks me to wake her in the middle of the night for sex. I have explained to her that love making is a very important and emotional thing for me and that we have plenty of opportunities once the kids are asleep, she said she prefers to make love before we sleep then we can cuddle naked and drift off to sleep. That never happens unless its 4am and I wake up on a sat/sun morning. She wont pause playing from 7pm-bed time.
I just dont know what to do, im am deeply stressed and upset over the lack of sexual intimacy in our relationship, 4 times we have made love in the last 3 weeks and all 4 have been at the weekend.
Im tired of bringing the same topic up and I've created an environment that fosters love, affection, caring, understanding and I do pretty much everything so she has energy, she even said how she feels more energised now that I do most things.
Im just feel like masturbating often to quell the physical desire and try my best to bury the emotional need. Removing the thoughts of sex from my mind seems like the only option left and id rather her be happy which she is at present....
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The one thing that is still plaguing me is her game, I've mentioned several times that I feel her game has priority over most things including me. She wont text much if she's playing, doesn't watch the kids much which has been almost lethal to our youngest rather recently... she also doesn't engage in conversation whilst she's playing so isolates herself from myself and the kids verbally.
Another effect this is having is that she wont make love until the weekends because she can sleep in and doesn't have to worry. She would rather game until she's tired, come to bed and then asks me to wake her in the middle of the night for sex. I have explained to her that love making is a very important and emotional thing for me and that we have plenty of opportunities once the kids are asleep, she said she prefers to make love before we sleep then we can cuddle naked and drift off to sleep. That never happens unless its 4am and I wake up on a sat/sun morning. She wont pause playing from 7pm-bed time.
I just dont know what to do, im am deeply stressed and upset over the lack of sexual intimacy in our relationship, 4 times we have made love in the last 3 weeks and all 4 have been at the weekend.
Im tired of bringing the same topic up and I've created an environment that fosters love, affection, caring, understanding and I do pretty much everything so she has energy, she even said how she feels more energised now that I do most things.
Im just feel like masturbating often to quell the physical desire and try my best to bury the emotional need. Removing the thoughts of sex from my mind seems like the only option left and id rather her be happy which she is at present....
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