This is is my first post here, so to start I want to do a short introduction. I'm 30 years old and have been married for almost 2 1/2 years, together for 5 years before that, and have no kids. I love my husband very much and we have so far had a very good marriage. Now on to why I'm here. Lately I have been feeling off. The biggest issue I have is that I have no desire to have sex, it has gotten so bad that I have anxiety about it when I think he is going to try. I want to want to do it, but I can't convince myself. I've tried to make myself get into it but I just end up wanting it to be over. I don't know why, but I just can't do it. The last time we had sex it took everything I could muster to not cry at the end. I know I need to tell him, but I don't know what to say when he asks why. I don't know what to say when he assumes that he is not "good enough." I am afraid he is going to think it is an issue of performance and that is not it at all , but I don't think he will believe me when I tell him that. And lately, all I want to do is lay in bed. I don't want to go anywhere, don't want to do anything, and that is not like me. Has anyone ever felt this way? How do I fix this? And how do I talk to him without him thinking that he is doing something wrong? Because I am the broken one, not him, I don't want him to think its him.
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