Looking for Working advice for non paying spouse on child support

Here is the issue..

My Ex wife has been working about 10 hours a week as a dental hygienist for the past 2 years since our divorce..

She did take a board of education job as a para for a few months, but quit it after I served her with papers for child support..

I currently get paid 200 a month..

She has not worked anything else on the books since that time..

I also am speculating that she has received a pay raise at her work but is getting it again off the books..

In 2012 she was making 40 an hour.. I know she gets a raise every year or at least every 2 years.. It's been 3 years.. She been at that job for 17 years since we had been together..

I also think she might be working more hours but again is getting paid cash instead..

I intend on bringing all of this up in court.. But speculation is a bit rough..

But over all my claim is she is not working to not pay child support..


So with all of this being said, has anyone had some success with this stuff.. Meaning getting the ex spouse to work more or pay more..

I am sorry in advance for many of the men here as I know this is a sore subject for many as I have a friend who gets raked over the coals by his ex wife any chance she gets and he is living in his moms basement because of his divorce..

If it is worth anything. I am looking to get 1000 a month out of her and that is it.. So its another 800 a month I am asking.. I don't want her to be broke or living in a shoebox.. I don't want her working the rest of her life to pay child support. I believe 1000 a month is decent if not fair and very low for living here in NYC and it would allow her to live a decent life style without over burdening her..

So if anyone has any insight either way thank you in advance..

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