About 3 1/2 to 4 years ago, I joined this site and it helped alot. My last divorce was due to her cheating.
Well, I got married again. It lasted exactly two months. That has to be some kind of record. The crazy thing is, we shouldn't have gotten married to begin with probably - she is substantially younger than I am (20 years) - and she asked me to marry her! We just hit it off so well on the surface level to begin with and she always talked about taking her life to new heights and new levels. I thought we would be growing together. It's hard to say this, but I was an idiot for not ending it a long time ago - even before she asked me to marry her.
At the end of the day, we don't mesh in so many ways, but we were having so much fun initially. I really believe that for her - she has an intermittent drinking problem - the part of her that wants to stay young is overwhelming the part of her that wants to grow up.
It doesn't work and we both had come to the same conclusion independently. Both of us have stated that there wasn't any infidelity and I tend to believe that.
The think is, even though I know it's the right thing to cut our losses now while we both think it, it still hurts. Very badly because I still love her.
I just wish I could remember all this learned last time as far as what I need to do to start healing. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Well, I got married again. It lasted exactly two months. That has to be some kind of record. The crazy thing is, we shouldn't have gotten married to begin with probably - she is substantially younger than I am (20 years) - and she asked me to marry her! We just hit it off so well on the surface level to begin with and she always talked about taking her life to new heights and new levels. I thought we would be growing together. It's hard to say this, but I was an idiot for not ending it a long time ago - even before she asked me to marry her.
At the end of the day, we don't mesh in so many ways, but we were having so much fun initially. I really believe that for her - she has an intermittent drinking problem - the part of her that wants to stay young is overwhelming the part of her that wants to grow up.
It doesn't work and we both had come to the same conclusion independently. Both of us have stated that there wasn't any infidelity and I tend to believe that.
The think is, even though I know it's the right thing to cut our losses now while we both think it, it still hurts. Very badly because I still love her.
I just wish I could remember all this learned last time as far as what I need to do to start healing. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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