My husband split all the money after feeling "fed up" with me asking where all the money was going. ( went to the bank and took 1/2 of our saving with out even telling me then opened up his own accounts)
We now have separate accounts and pay half on all the bills. With one family joint account where we have the checks flow through.
We bought a truck 5/6 years ago when our money was together and I was earning the majority of the pay. We paid it off immediately and I traded my car in for it.( I drive the truck unles he wants it for dhs gigs and won't let me trade it in for a more economical vehicle)
Years later and devastations later, I am working 2 different jobs that support the needs of the children time wise, and make plenty of pay for my portions of the bills. He traded his car in and bought a new one with a 300$+ car payment. Now he wants me to pay 1/2 and take my half of the tax return to pay towards his car. I told him I will not. And I want my portion of the tax return. Last year he took the whole thing and bought DJ lights (1800$) and I didn't see a penny back. I told him I want to file separately and will use my tax return to save or pay for what I need. This time of the year is slow in my business and I am making only a fraction of what I can or usually do in the summer. He is being quite mean and name calling about it. There is much more behind his behavior which I deem as very menipulitive and emotionally abusive. Divorce comes up nearly weekly.
What I want to know is;
Do you feel I am responsible for his car payments or paying off his vehicle?
Should he have reign over my tax return?
Plus he makes 4xs the ammount I make and doesn't pay in any extra.
Normal bills are split evenly. I feel like he is ringing me dry to pay off his debt and then will skate anyways.
should I cut my ties while I still have a savings?
We now have separate accounts and pay half on all the bills. With one family joint account where we have the checks flow through.
We bought a truck 5/6 years ago when our money was together and I was earning the majority of the pay. We paid it off immediately and I traded my car in for it.( I drive the truck unles he wants it for dhs gigs and won't let me trade it in for a more economical vehicle)
Years later and devastations later, I am working 2 different jobs that support the needs of the children time wise, and make plenty of pay for my portions of the bills. He traded his car in and bought a new one with a 300$+ car payment. Now he wants me to pay 1/2 and take my half of the tax return to pay towards his car. I told him I will not. And I want my portion of the tax return. Last year he took the whole thing and bought DJ lights (1800$) and I didn't see a penny back. I told him I want to file separately and will use my tax return to save or pay for what I need. This time of the year is slow in my business and I am making only a fraction of what I can or usually do in the summer. He is being quite mean and name calling about it. There is much more behind his behavior which I deem as very menipulitive and emotionally abusive. Divorce comes up nearly weekly.
What I want to know is;
Do you feel I am responsible for his car payments or paying off his vehicle?
Should he have reign over my tax return?
Plus he makes 4xs the ammount I make and doesn't pay in any extra.
Normal bills are split evenly. I feel like he is ringing me dry to pay off his debt and then will skate anyways.
should I cut my ties while I still have a savings?
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