I have been having a volatile time with my soon to be fiancé...
We've broken up a few times and everytime he got mad at me for something -- he posted it on facebook. Not mentioning my name -- but took relationship status off --blocked me -- etc.
Anyway, we broke up last week because he was angry I wouldn't go on a trip with him and his friends -- and it was because my daughter was sick. He apparently was going to propose there -- and he was super mad. I told him I was sorry -- but I just had to put my daughter first.
Anyway, I just found text messages today (via computer) that show he was telling his whole family that he hired a private investigator to follow me - that he was done with me -- that he was sick of my lies etc. etc.
He even had a woman (friend who crushes on him)...contact him and tell him she was so glad he was done with me etc etc.
Even his mother was calling our relationship "sick" because he was so obessed with me.
Then he BEGGED me to come half way though the trip - and he bought my plane ticket etc. He paid everything with frequent flier miles.... BUT -- He told his friends via text not to tell me that they knew about our problems -- and then told them he had me PAY MY OWN WAY -- and he was going to "judge my character from there..." to see if I was worthy of the engagement.
He knows I found all this and he just said I was searching for excuses to end the relationship and that I'm overreacting -- that he still wants to marry me etc.
He's begging my forgiveness....
But, his family was calling me a "bi%ch"! all because he told me I was cheating or something and that he didn't really believe my daughter was sick.
How would you deal with this? Should I forgive?
We've broken up a few times and everytime he got mad at me for something -- he posted it on facebook. Not mentioning my name -- but took relationship status off --blocked me -- etc.
Anyway, we broke up last week because he was angry I wouldn't go on a trip with him and his friends -- and it was because my daughter was sick. He apparently was going to propose there -- and he was super mad. I told him I was sorry -- but I just had to put my daughter first.
Anyway, I just found text messages today (via computer) that show he was telling his whole family that he hired a private investigator to follow me - that he was done with me -- that he was sick of my lies etc. etc.
He even had a woman (friend who crushes on him)...contact him and tell him she was so glad he was done with me etc etc.
Even his mother was calling our relationship "sick" because he was so obessed with me.
Then he BEGGED me to come half way though the trip - and he bought my plane ticket etc. He paid everything with frequent flier miles.... BUT -- He told his friends via text not to tell me that they knew about our problems -- and then told them he had me PAY MY OWN WAY -- and he was going to "judge my character from there..." to see if I was worthy of the engagement.
He knows I found all this and he just said I was searching for excuses to end the relationship and that I'm overreacting -- that he still wants to marry me etc.
He's begging my forgiveness....
But, his family was calling me a "bi%ch"! all because he told me I was cheating or something and that he didn't really believe my daughter was sick.
How would you deal with this? Should I forgive?
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