I was with my boyfriend for a year and last weekend he ended it on the Saturday, he was very emotional and even punched a wall after I left. He then text me on the Sunday saying he was delusional and that he wanted to talk, he has been really stressed lately over exams/uni. I agreed and I was happy to continue our relationship regarding some changes. Then on Thursday we were supposed to go out for a meal and he was supposed to sleep at mine. I asked if he was still staying the night and he said he didn't feel like it. This really hurt as I was already upset as I had fallen out with my best friend, he also knew I was on my own as my mum was on holiday. I was really angry and he just kept repeating that he didn't feel like it. Then he facetimed me and ended it. Now I see it was the right thing and if I'm honest with myself I should have ended it a few months ago. He wasn't affectionate (only when I pushed him to be), he wasn't thoughtful and rarely wanted to come to mine. He also wasn't very supportive, I have wanted to create a fashion blog for ages and he asked if I had to show my face?? (Like he was embarrassed) and he also called me stupid saying I couldn't be a team leader at work..but now I have been put forward for the position. Im just struggling for closure, on Thursday he was so un-emotional, it seemed like he was waiting for me to do something for him to then end it. I text him Friday to ask if we could talk before work as obviously we hadn't seen each other face to face and I was so nervous. He said he was having a good night and didn't see what there was to talk about. We talked briefly yesterday and I said I didn't feel like he was treating me as he should regarding our 1 yr of dating, he said he wanted us to be civil and that he wanted me to remember all of the good parts of our relationship but how can I with the way he ended it?. He walked off and said I was moaning. I then text to finish my points I just said that I didn't understand why he would always say he had so much work to do and couldn't see me but now he just goes out and gets drunk. I can't help feel there is another person that prompted his decision as he was so cold…
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