So background info is we have been married for 11 years and together 14 years. 3 kids under 5.
I really needed to get this out as I literally have no one to talk to as everyone thinks our relationship is perfect. Dh is a good provider he works hard and wants me to stay at home and bring up our 3 children. He is very generous too. But as the title says I am sick of his attitude. We were organizing to go to my best friends new house with the kids and he started swearing saying "she has no f--ing kids she doesn't have a clue what its like to have time schedules" and was being really rude. He speaks about a lot of people like this including his family who think he is very blunt and rude too. Another situation recently was my daughter who is 5 accidentally had her leg out and he tripped over and lost the plot saying she knew what she was doing and got right in her face. She was petrified and was crying.....He chucks these temper tantrums a lot and causes a lot of issues. It makes me resent him. When he has his tantrums or *****ing sessions it makes me literally die inside t hat little bit more. He has been like this for a long time.
We have sought marriage counselling in the past for this issue as nearly 2 years ago I fell completely out of love with him. It helped and things were good for a while then we accidentally conceived our now 9 month old daughter. Any advice on where to go from here? Its affecting all aspects of our relationship....
I really needed to get this out as I literally have no one to talk to as everyone thinks our relationship is perfect. Dh is a good provider he works hard and wants me to stay at home and bring up our 3 children. He is very generous too. But as the title says I am sick of his attitude. We were organizing to go to my best friends new house with the kids and he started swearing saying "she has no f--ing kids she doesn't have a clue what its like to have time schedules" and was being really rude. He speaks about a lot of people like this including his family who think he is very blunt and rude too. Another situation recently was my daughter who is 5 accidentally had her leg out and he tripped over and lost the plot saying she knew what she was doing and got right in her face. She was petrified and was crying.....He chucks these temper tantrums a lot and causes a lot of issues. It makes me resent him. When he has his tantrums or *****ing sessions it makes me literally die inside t hat little bit more. He has been like this for a long time.
We have sought marriage counselling in the past for this issue as nearly 2 years ago I fell completely out of love with him. It helped and things were good for a while then we accidentally conceived our now 9 month old daughter. Any advice on where to go from here? Its affecting all aspects of our relationship....
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