Firstly this not to suggest that I am suggesting that I am good looking or attractive here, looks are, as we know, subjective.
But since about year 7/year 8 I started getting compliments, normal things like 'oh your buff' 'sexy' 'fit' etc. Or a girl would come up to me and say something about my hair. I always struggled because I didn't know what to do after hearing it.
At first I used to say 'no Im not' but then I realised that sounded too feminine for the image I portray on my exterior. Other times I used to say 'thanks' with hints of sarcasm.
On the contrary I dont have a problem complimenting girls, I would easily say your cute, pretty,
But even now that I'm older I find it difficult, I just dont know how to respond. When a girl is talking to me and saying I have nice eyes or whatever, I just sometimes feel like DIE, just sink into my seat.
I dont know why it makes me feel so weird, I obviously work on my image, spend time on my hair, go to the gym, play a lot of sports, so I dont know why I get so worked up about it.
Anyone feel the same way? And how do you combat it? I tend to quickly change the subject, or simply ignore the message if its a text now.
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