during the time they were married?
Before ex, I had had sex with about thirty men. After I met him, it was him and only him for 25 years. Now I seem to have stepped right back into my pre-monogamy mode as if nothing happened in between. :o I've been with 12 men since august. (This all strikes me as kind of bizarre behavior -- like a Jekyll and Hyde sort of thing -- but that is for another post I guess.)
Anyhow... I swear that how men have sex has changed immensely since I was last single. I'm sure the internet is the big game changer, but it hasn't changed things the way I would have thought. It's not that these guys are all showing off the moves they've learned watching porn, at all, which I'm thankful for. lol But they all seem to know a little something about tantra and are totally getting the whole g spot thing (I didn't know for sure I had one till after the break up! lol). And almost always before ex and the whole time with ex, sex was done after everyone had an orgasm. Now I have no idea when it should end. The end point seems to be whenever you hit the wall.
The whole experience is completely different to me. And it seems to be nearly universal. It's not just the ones I've met online, and it doesn't seem to be an age thing (they've ranged in age from 26 to 63! lol), there has been a large range in education, too. I've been with a couple of guys who seem to be pretty marginal in terms of work/career and then a thoracic surgeon and one who sold his business for 330 million dollars and a construction worker and a guy who worked at NASA. But they seem to all have this sex thing in common.
What do you guys think? Is this a real thing? Have people really changed the way they have sex over the last 25 or 30 years?
Before ex, I had had sex with about thirty men. After I met him, it was him and only him for 25 years. Now I seem to have stepped right back into my pre-monogamy mode as if nothing happened in between. :o I've been with 12 men since august. (This all strikes me as kind of bizarre behavior -- like a Jekyll and Hyde sort of thing -- but that is for another post I guess.)
Anyhow... I swear that how men have sex has changed immensely since I was last single. I'm sure the internet is the big game changer, but it hasn't changed things the way I would have thought. It's not that these guys are all showing off the moves they've learned watching porn, at all, which I'm thankful for. lol But they all seem to know a little something about tantra and are totally getting the whole g spot thing (I didn't know for sure I had one till after the break up! lol). And almost always before ex and the whole time with ex, sex was done after everyone had an orgasm. Now I have no idea when it should end. The end point seems to be whenever you hit the wall.
The whole experience is completely different to me. And it seems to be nearly universal. It's not just the ones I've met online, and it doesn't seem to be an age thing (they've ranged in age from 26 to 63! lol), there has been a large range in education, too. I've been with a couple of guys who seem to be pretty marginal in terms of work/career and then a thoracic surgeon and one who sold his business for 330 million dollars and a construction worker and a guy who worked at NASA. But they seem to all have this sex thing in common.
What do you guys think? Is this a real thing? Have people really changed the way they have sex over the last 25 or 30 years?
Put the internet to work for you.
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