Hi,
I'm new here and I was wondering if I could please have some advice.
I have this really great friend who I've known for almost 6 years now but I never was that close to him but in the last 9 months I've become really quite close to him.
I find him hilarious and we just get on so well. We text all the time and I just think he's an amazing friend. We stay up texting till really late (sometimes till 4am) even if we have a 9am lecture. I don't know if he even likes me because he has so many other female friends and he may just see me as a good friend. I started to develop feelings for him but didn't tell him and instead told him I didn't want to talk to him but he said he wouldn't ever stop talking to me but it was my choice if I reply back. But that's the thing he knows I'll always reply back. We started talking less after that but about two months ago I was going through a rough time and he was there for me and supported me so much. Now we're back to talking all the time and I think I'm falling for him. I feel like I should maybe stop talking to him as I know nothing could ever happen between us as he's not muslim. And this isn't because my parents would disapprove, it's purely because I want a muslim husband. But I do love this guys personality.
I haven't told him how I feel as I'm worried he doesn't feel the same way...and worse still I'm worried he may tell other friends which would just make things awkward.
Should I stop talking to him permanently? If so please could you advise me as to do this without hurting his feelings.
Thank you.
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