The common theme on this forum seems to be that these cheating spouses have flaws and that we are best to dump them and move on, to find better mates.
But there are many books such as "Sex at Dawn" that seem to hint that infidelity is really rooted in our biology.
Maybe our modern concept of marriage and monogamy is not natural to us as a species?
If that is true, then why do we continue to put ourselves through the pain of marriage and the inevitable divorces?
It's heartbreaking for me to read stories on here of people who have been cheated on by multiple spouses. Are we chasing an ideal that is unlikely in the modern world?
But there are many books such as "Sex at Dawn" that seem to hint that infidelity is really rooted in our biology.
Maybe our modern concept of marriage and monogamy is not natural to us as a species?
If that is true, then why do we continue to put ourselves through the pain of marriage and the inevitable divorces?
It's heartbreaking for me to read stories on here of people who have been cheated on by multiple spouses. Are we chasing an ideal that is unlikely in the modern world?
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