Ok this is the post i did on yahoo answers a while back to give you a bit of a backstory on the whole situation......
I recently just left school and am moving into sixth form (im 16). I have mixed feeling about this girl.
We've known each other for a while,i guess we where friends we used to hang out in the same group at times, she laughed at my jokes listened to me etc.
We hugged each other goodbye on School prom and thats the last i'd thought i see of her for the time being as she's moving to a college for the rest of her education.
So I went to this party a few weeks back and she was there. We talked for a bit and i think she got a bit drunk. We ended up cuddling, holdiing hands and talking for a bit on and off for a hour or so before i left. At the time i would probably have kissed her or something had she not vomited after a shot.
As you probably could of guessed i was really in to her now. Over the last few weeks i messaged her on Facebook and we talked for a hours sometimes, until recently when i starting to have doubt if interested.
The conversations where always good and interesting but i never started them at all, literally i have talked to her 8 times and she never started one.she said she fell asleep and didnt answer her message i sent (i took a bit to answer but still), the most recent time i talked to her she said she was "walking her dog and had to go" it was nearly 11pm, sounded odd to me to do that, although she did say "talk to u soon". Anyway what should i do should i wait to see if she contacts me to she if interested?
Update
Ok kind of a follow up, but really i feel as if i may have screwed my chances up :(
I should probably have asked her to hang out a few days after the party but never mind my mindsets more just f*ck it and give it a go anyway. I asked her a few days ago if she wanted to hang out with me and some mates (I haven't seen her in a while so i thought it would be good to meet as a group first before a 1 on 1 date). She didn't turn up in the end, she said she was busy apparently, an obvious lie, so i guess she isnt as in to me anymore, as i was quite sure she was, but i either waited too long or it was just drunk actions (although she said she wasn't drunk herself 3 days later)
But, im still gunna tell her how i feel about her, id much rather do it in person but she hasnt met up with us so im going to text her.I care little for rejection now, i just want to get it over with as its dominating my thoughts and ruining my Summer.
Any suggestions on the situation? I know what im roughly going to say but don't want to make our friendship awkward)
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