Hey everyone just wondering this is my second time writing, I have been married for over 15 years, I feel at this point my wife has fallen out of love with me, because of the following;
sex life seems to occur as a matter of convenience as opposed to true love for instance she turns her head when I attempt to kiss her, she does absolutely nothing in terms of foreplay to me, she has never performed oral sex ever, the only position is missionary, she refuses to be on top, and generally gets upset if I rush foreplay on her. I did attempt to simply stop, and a result it did not bother her at all. Now this is a complete 180 degree turn from what our sex life used to be like, aside from the lack of oral sex she would attempt other positions, additionally she never opens he eyes during sex.
we have attempted marriage counseling and she never seems to recall our sex life like this to the therapist in fact we were asked to keep a journal, and will even go to the extent of lying to the therapist, that we must have forgot a few dates in the journal, absolutely nothing has changed since seeing the therapist.
2) over the past 2 year she seems to have reverted to the mentality of a 12 year old with no cares or addressing of adult matters, she would rather sit and watch jerry springer shows with our 14 year old daughter all day or play games. They are literally inseparable which normally would be fun, but even our therapists agrees that its reckless, food for thought, my stepson (her son from another marriage) is now incarcerated as a result of the same mode of parenting, and of course the authorities are the ones wrong according to her.
3) she is very flirty towards other men, for instance we were at a party and one of our mutual friends decided to use "the facilities" outside due to the bathroom being occupied, yes I know not very etiquette, in any event right in front of me she blurts out and states to him, " what are you embarrassed turn this way an show us what you got"
where do I go from here?
sex life seems to occur as a matter of convenience as opposed to true love for instance she turns her head when I attempt to kiss her, she does absolutely nothing in terms of foreplay to me, she has never performed oral sex ever, the only position is missionary, she refuses to be on top, and generally gets upset if I rush foreplay on her. I did attempt to simply stop, and a result it did not bother her at all. Now this is a complete 180 degree turn from what our sex life used to be like, aside from the lack of oral sex she would attempt other positions, additionally she never opens he eyes during sex.
we have attempted marriage counseling and she never seems to recall our sex life like this to the therapist in fact we were asked to keep a journal, and will even go to the extent of lying to the therapist, that we must have forgot a few dates in the journal, absolutely nothing has changed since seeing the therapist.
2) over the past 2 year she seems to have reverted to the mentality of a 12 year old with no cares or addressing of adult matters, she would rather sit and watch jerry springer shows with our 14 year old daughter all day or play games. They are literally inseparable which normally would be fun, but even our therapists agrees that its reckless, food for thought, my stepson (her son from another marriage) is now incarcerated as a result of the same mode of parenting, and of course the authorities are the ones wrong according to her.
3) she is very flirty towards other men, for instance we were at a party and one of our mutual friends decided to use "the facilities" outside due to the bathroom being occupied, yes I know not very etiquette, in any event right in front of me she blurts out and states to him, " what are you embarrassed turn this way an show us what you got"
where do I go from here?
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