this is prob my 4th thread and I wanted to do it to show the new members of this page the full cycle of how this generally works.
My wife wanted space, I moved out, she closed up, I tried, begged, pleaded, failed.
She blew hot and cold, gave me hope, smashed me back down. Got friendly with a guy, told me just friends, that ended after a few weeks (guessing he got what he wanted a left) she wanted me back, then she gets nasty again.....
We have three kids, my eldest (5) is suffering from emotional distress and is very unhappy daddy is not at home. This week he finds my wife in bed with another man and it has messed him up! He won't stop talking about it, I obviously am also upset... My wife who I have spent 6 months trying to get back has been sleeping with random guys!!
Today is our second wedding anniversary, yesterday I filed for divorce. I was deluded and convinced myself for months she was telling me the truth, the truth is as soon as your out the house, she is looking at a new life, without you, they will
String you along. I have read it so many times on here, I told myself my situation is different, it wasn't, it's all the same. When one person makes the decision to leave the marriage "for space or whatever" it's done. They have emotionally detached from the marriage, there is a very slim chance that will come
Back, and ask yourself...... Could this happen again and again if they did chose to come back.
You guys who have advised me, your great, thank you. Dan.
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My wife wanted space, I moved out, she closed up, I tried, begged, pleaded, failed.
She blew hot and cold, gave me hope, smashed me back down. Got friendly with a guy, told me just friends, that ended after a few weeks (guessing he got what he wanted a left) she wanted me back, then she gets nasty again.....
We have three kids, my eldest (5) is suffering from emotional distress and is very unhappy daddy is not at home. This week he finds my wife in bed with another man and it has messed him up! He won't stop talking about it, I obviously am also upset... My wife who I have spent 6 months trying to get back has been sleeping with random guys!!
Today is our second wedding anniversary, yesterday I filed for divorce. I was deluded and convinced myself for months she was telling me the truth, the truth is as soon as your out the house, she is looking at a new life, without you, they will
String you along. I have read it so many times on here, I told myself my situation is different, it wasn't, it's all the same. When one person makes the decision to leave the marriage "for space or whatever" it's done. They have emotionally detached from the marriage, there is a very slim chance that will come
Back, and ask yourself...... Could this happen again and again if they did chose to come back.
You guys who have advised me, your great, thank you. Dan.
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