Are there just persons, who are not chatty and social at all?

I wrote about my husband not wanting to go places before because he seems to be a bit afraid of them.

Two weeks ago we suddenly went to a crowded coffee place. I was shocked (positive shock). Yesterday I talked with him about it and asked him if he wasn't happy about it and he said that it really does not mean as much to him as it does to me.

My husband is not afraid of parties when he knows the people but I noticed he does not really "chat" instead whenever there is a party, he starts to be "useful" rather than talking to persons he does not know well.

I also noticed my husband often does thinks on his own and seems not to mind. For example yesterday he went jogging all alone. He did jog or work out all alone lots of times before and I could not figure if he was sad about it.

I wonder if he is "burdened" by that. Deep down in his heart does he think "Oh, I wish, my wife would go jogging with me... and I wish I was more extroverted so I would be the heart of every party... and I wish I could go places more easily"?

Or does he rather think "I don't mind being afraid of going places with my family at all because I don't like it anyway"?:confused:

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