My long distance girlfriend (of whom I met whilst at uni) is soon to be embarking on a summer job at the other end of the country.
I am happy for her, I love her and I want her to enjoy herself, but I feel that I cannot help but wonder what she will be getting up to. She has told me that she has a very structured routine in this job, and that there will be little room for partying, clubbing or general mischief.
She tells me she has days off and breaks too go exploring etc but that's about it. This is fair enough, but I've seen photos of when she visited last year and it looks like they're having fun and partying and getting drunk. The having fun doesn't bother me, more the drunkenness, as I know she's done stuff drunk.
Also she confessed she had a romp with a superior at her job...which kind of bothered me a lot. I can't help but feel that if he is there again something may happen.
She recently talked about this guy she liked where she tells me he went out with her best mate, but her best mate hasn't spoken to him, and how he is awesome etc. the way she talks about him in such a giddy sense makes me a bit jealous...anyways...he lives in the same geographic area of where her summer job Is (she goes away soon). She tells me that she talked to him about going to visit him and hang out! but this makes me uncomfortable. He is a student that studies a particular subject, that I know one of her exes did. I am wondering If this is the same bloke.
I'm not sure how to tread in this situation...but I just feel like she may like this guy.
I can't help but feel insecure....any advice?
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