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Hello guys and girls,

I quite like this guy. Most of the time we get on great. Then there are times when things get heated and to me it's for trivial reasons. We were suppose to go out to dinner and he cancelled. I was okay with it, prior to this cancellation I noticed he was rarely initiating conversations

On Wednesday he said good morning followed by a few emojis and I said morning back, he responded with 'Ok' which I've noticed he does when he expects more from me.

If the tables were turned I would sense something was up and question it, however the conversation ended there. So fast forward to yesterday, I waited to see if he would make contact. He didn't, so I said hi and we had a little chat.

Today I didn't feel like talking to anyone via my phone and he asks what's up with me? Did I do something? I told him I had a lot of my plate (which I do). He's asking why I didn't say anything before and why I've been distant. 1. The day I wanted to talk (Wednesday) he ended the convo 2. Yesterday I was fine 3. Hello I've been starting the conversations, if anyone should feel a certain way it should be me.

I'm the one that makes contact recently! If he can sense I'm not okay why doesn't he just ask me? I know he cares but sometimes I feel like he makes it into something it's not. Then I'm left feeling bad like I've done something wrong. It's a reacurring thing and the funny thing I was wondering why he was being distance and let that thought to over my head.

I needed to vent, I don't really need advice just someone to listen and give input if you can.

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