Hi,
Embarrassing which is why this is anonymous but felt I should just get a bit of advice because honestly it is depressing.
As you can see from the title, I'm 21 (female) and never had a boyfriend or even a date! It would be nice to do this, though I am under no illusion that I am not the best catch out there. I am overweight and currently doing things to rectify this situation. I'm constantly told however that I am funny, I know I'm intelligent and (besides the weight issue) I wouldn't say that I am ugly.
All I really wanted to know is whether it is weird to have got to this stage in my life without these experiences because I do feel like I am the only one :(
Phrases such as 'you'll find someone eventually', 'they're out there somewhere', or 'I envy you because you have all this to come' are the worst things imaginable to me because unless these people have a crystal ball there is no certainty in this whatsoever which is why I find the topic of relationships so frustrating!
Alongside this my brother is getting married next year, sending me into a funk about the fact he is going to have someone for life whereas I haven't has someone for a minute!
If anyone could let me know I'm not the only one who feels this way I would be eternally grateful.
NB. Although I haven't had a bf I have kissed/ been kissed before so I don't feel too sorry for myself haha
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