I'm sure others have this same thought. What is it your spouse still asks you do to and you, in turn, are amazed they think you still need to do that for them?
Ex has asked for the past two days if he has kiddo on her birthday. Am I his f-ing secretary? Can he not keep up with his OWN freaking calendar? If being with her means so much (which it should the way he moans and groans about it) then wouldn't he keep up with every moment the court order allows? Two years ago he completely forgot.
The REAL pisser is he is having KIDDO ASK. First time I told her "I'm not sure" (but sure I know) then the next day she asked a second time and I replied "Doesn't your Dad have a copy of the order?" to which she shrugs (of course he does - but I'd be happy to email a copy) and tonight she asks again.
I know he has her this year and I don't want to get in trouble for not meeting him if he does check and assumes I'll be at the meeting place. And if I randomly have her get in the car to go to the meeting place only to find he's not there she'll be mad that I knew and wouldn't tell her and intentionally set him up. So I have no real choice but to finally say "It really isn't my place to keep up with the times your Dad has with you but since you are the one stuck asking and it's not your fault he keeps having you ask, I'll check." I get out the order, read the pertinent part, say yes he has you from X o'clock to Y o'clock. It took me all of 60 seconds to pull the file and read it.
I am not his wife, secretary, paralegal, etc. Check your own damn calendar. Making sure he visits when the order says he can is NOT my job. That part of the order has been the same for TEN FREAKING YEARS. Even years he has her during the evening on her birthday so he can take her to dinner and give her his gift(s).
GRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrr. Azzhole.
Ex has asked for the past two days if he has kiddo on her birthday. Am I his f-ing secretary? Can he not keep up with his OWN freaking calendar? If being with her means so much (which it should the way he moans and groans about it) then wouldn't he keep up with every moment the court order allows? Two years ago he completely forgot.
The REAL pisser is he is having KIDDO ASK. First time I told her "I'm not sure" (but sure I know) then the next day she asked a second time and I replied "Doesn't your Dad have a copy of the order?" to which she shrugs (of course he does - but I'd be happy to email a copy) and tonight she asks again.
I know he has her this year and I don't want to get in trouble for not meeting him if he does check and assumes I'll be at the meeting place. And if I randomly have her get in the car to go to the meeting place only to find he's not there she'll be mad that I knew and wouldn't tell her and intentionally set him up. So I have no real choice but to finally say "It really isn't my place to keep up with the times your Dad has with you but since you are the one stuck asking and it's not your fault he keeps having you ask, I'll check." I get out the order, read the pertinent part, say yes he has you from X o'clock to Y o'clock. It took me all of 60 seconds to pull the file and read it.
I am not his wife, secretary, paralegal, etc. Check your own damn calendar. Making sure he visits when the order says he can is NOT my job. That part of the order has been the same for TEN FREAKING YEARS. Even years he has her during the evening on her birthday so he can take her to dinner and give her his gift(s).
GRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrr. Azzhole.
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