Hiya,
Sorry if this kind of thing has been posted before... I'm new to this site.
I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months... It started out as something of a fling but just kind of continued from there. Before this I was married for 12 years so am completely new to the whole dating/ new relationship thing!
He works long hours (starts 7am, often finished 6 or 7pm) and has 2 kids from a previous relatnship most weekends. I totally respect that they are his priority.
However, on the one weekend in 5 he has off from his children he chooses to go fishing! I understand he doesn't get time for this during the week at all but when he has roughly one day free per month I'd like to feel like a priority! A the moment he stays over one or 2 nights a week but has to leave for work at the crack of dawn. Most evenings he stays at his house so he can 'relax' there. He has a Saturday free soon and is going fishing Friday after work and staying there. I would love him to stay with me on the one day he doesn't have to leave first thing in the morning :-(
Am I being over sensitive or just silly? I know the kids come first, as do mine to me... I'd just like to know I'm next.
Thank you so much! This is all so alien to me... When I met my ex husband we moved in and got married within a few months... I was 21. Phew!
Sorry if this kind of thing has been posted before... I'm new to this site.
I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months... It started out as something of a fling but just kind of continued from there. Before this I was married for 12 years so am completely new to the whole dating/ new relationship thing!
He works long hours (starts 7am, often finished 6 or 7pm) and has 2 kids from a previous relatnship most weekends. I totally respect that they are his priority.
However, on the one weekend in 5 he has off from his children he chooses to go fishing! I understand he doesn't get time for this during the week at all but when he has roughly one day free per month I'd like to feel like a priority! A the moment he stays over one or 2 nights a week but has to leave for work at the crack of dawn. Most evenings he stays at his house so he can 'relax' there. He has a Saturday free soon and is going fishing Friday after work and staying there. I would love him to stay with me on the one day he doesn't have to leave first thing in the morning :-(
Am I being over sensitive or just silly? I know the kids come first, as do mine to me... I'd just like to know I'm next.
Thank you so much! This is all so alien to me... When I met my ex husband we moved in and got married within a few months... I was 21. Phew!
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