Hello, I need some additional insight into my situation.
To make a long story short me and my wife separated about 3 months ago. I didn't cheat. Most of our arguments came about her kids and spending habits. Only married for 1.5 years and she quit her job to stay at home. Anyway had bought her a new car because her car we couldn't afford on my salary and her credit was not good enough. Plus, she wanted to finish school. So, I let he stay at home and she graduated from college. Just for some background.
Now she moved out after she got a job because we had already decided things aren't going well and she couldn't see that her kids were manipulating the relationship because I was not their father.
So one day I go to work and come home and, yes you guess it. She took everything that she wanted and only left me the stuff she did not want. Mostly trash and very dirty walls. So, I called and was very upset that she did it like this. She gave no apologies. The car stayed with me of course.
She changed her number and I didn't know where she moved to. So, I moved on.
So, present day she emailed me a couple of weeks ago saying she needed sex and can she come over. Sure I said. Well, then all the emotions come running back. She wanted us to try again, and that things are really hard for her. So, I said ok and that she can drive the car if she wants.
So far everything seems to be going ok, until last night. I, of course now have her address and cell number because she has my car and we're trying to work it out. On Thursday I has asked her if she wanted to go out Friday night, and she said that she has plans with one of her kids and another parent to do some kids stuff between 6pm-9pm and that if I wanted we could hang out after. Fine I said.
Friday night she text me saying I should have been there because it's a lot of families, this was around 7:30pm. Also, mined you she emailed me that morning saying she was looking forward to this evening.
Well, around 9:30pm no call, 10pm no call so about 10:30pm I called. She didn't answer, 11pm I called still no answer. So around 11:15 I called and said that this is not going to work and if she could bring me back my car Saturday and if I don't hear from her I'll report it stolen. Well, around 12am I decided to drive over there and she answered the door in her night clothes, I was like what's going on, and she said that she wasn't feeling well and just decided to come home and get in the bed. I was like why didn't you call or text me. She said sorry. I thought that was very rude
So the next morning she heard my message and called and just went off on me saying you can have your car and I can't believe you threaten to call the police.
So, I admitted I over reacted, but she just seem adamant that I was totally wrong and she doesn't want this.
Can I get some else's thoughts on this?
Thank you
To make a long story short me and my wife separated about 3 months ago. I didn't cheat. Most of our arguments came about her kids and spending habits. Only married for 1.5 years and she quit her job to stay at home. Anyway had bought her a new car because her car we couldn't afford on my salary and her credit was not good enough. Plus, she wanted to finish school. So, I let he stay at home and she graduated from college. Just for some background.
Now she moved out after she got a job because we had already decided things aren't going well and she couldn't see that her kids were manipulating the relationship because I was not their father.
So one day I go to work and come home and, yes you guess it. She took everything that she wanted and only left me the stuff she did not want. Mostly trash and very dirty walls. So, I called and was very upset that she did it like this. She gave no apologies. The car stayed with me of course.
She changed her number and I didn't know where she moved to. So, I moved on.
So, present day she emailed me a couple of weeks ago saying she needed sex and can she come over. Sure I said. Well, then all the emotions come running back. She wanted us to try again, and that things are really hard for her. So, I said ok and that she can drive the car if she wants.
So far everything seems to be going ok, until last night. I, of course now have her address and cell number because she has my car and we're trying to work it out. On Thursday I has asked her if she wanted to go out Friday night, and she said that she has plans with one of her kids and another parent to do some kids stuff between 6pm-9pm and that if I wanted we could hang out after. Fine I said.
Friday night she text me saying I should have been there because it's a lot of families, this was around 7:30pm. Also, mined you she emailed me that morning saying she was looking forward to this evening.
Well, around 9:30pm no call, 10pm no call so about 10:30pm I called. She didn't answer, 11pm I called still no answer. So around 11:15 I called and said that this is not going to work and if she could bring me back my car Saturday and if I don't hear from her I'll report it stolen. Well, around 12am I decided to drive over there and she answered the door in her night clothes, I was like what's going on, and she said that she wasn't feeling well and just decided to come home and get in the bed. I was like why didn't you call or text me. She said sorry. I thought that was very rude
So the next morning she heard my message and called and just went off on me saying you can have your car and I can't believe you threaten to call the police.
So, I admitted I over reacted, but she just seem adamant that I was totally wrong and she doesn't want this.
Can I get some else's thoughts on this?
Thank you
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