spare me the 'having a bf/gf is haraam' lecture. Me of all people are fully aware of islam and its rules.
I come from quite strict practicing family.. no prizes for guessing that my relationship is a secret. I genuinley think I'm in love and can see myself married to my bf but its at that stage where we want more. We are considering nikah behind our parents backs to avoid commiting more major sins as my parents accepting his proposal at this stage is very unlikely as he is 18, I am 19. We are both still at college and he has no income, so can't provide for me. The nikah should last us a few years untill he asks for my hand in marriage and we get married properly. I've tried istikharah and prayed for a sign to take it to the next step but I don't think its clear enough
..I just need some advice from people in similar situations ??? I don't know what I'm doing.
I come from quite strict practicing family.. no prizes for guessing that my relationship is a secret. I genuinley think I'm in love and can see myself married to my bf but its at that stage where we want more. We are considering nikah behind our parents backs to avoid commiting more major sins as my parents accepting his proposal at this stage is very unlikely as he is 18, I am 19. We are both still at college and he has no income, so can't provide for me. The nikah should last us a few years untill he asks for my hand in marriage and we get married properly. I've tried istikharah and prayed for a sign to take it to the next step but I don't think its clear enough
..I just need some advice from people in similar situations ??? I don't know what I'm doing.
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