Hello, this is my first post on this sight and I'd just like some outside input on my situation. I am wondering if I should keep some friends in my life and if it is just time to move on.
As of lately I've been changing myself. I'm about to graduate from college and start the professional job hunt. Throughout college I smoked a little weed and hung around with people that did the same. But recently I quit and haven't smoked in some time due to needing to pass a drug test for a job and just wanting to move on from the drug and stay sober. Needless to say my friends still smoke and I do not care that they do as long as they know I don't do it. But ever since I quit they just seem to not care about my friendship and will never text or call me first. It is always me initiating contact and even then it is likely ignored.
Recently I have gotten into an argument with one of those same friends and I took the mature route and just apologized to end the argument and move on. He never even responded.
How do you know when to completely cut ties with friends? Is it time for me to accept that we are growing apart? Should I be friends with people who show me little to no respect and talk behind my back?
As of lately I've been changing myself. I'm about to graduate from college and start the professional job hunt. Throughout college I smoked a little weed and hung around with people that did the same. But recently I quit and haven't smoked in some time due to needing to pass a drug test for a job and just wanting to move on from the drug and stay sober. Needless to say my friends still smoke and I do not care that they do as long as they know I don't do it. But ever since I quit they just seem to not care about my friendship and will never text or call me first. It is always me initiating contact and even then it is likely ignored.
Recently I have gotten into an argument with one of those same friends and I took the mature route and just apologized to end the argument and move on. He never even responded.
How do you know when to completely cut ties with friends? Is it time for me to accept that we are growing apart? Should I be friends with people who show me little to no respect and talk behind my back?
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