My wife and I have been married for 16 years. A couple of years ago things started to slow down. We talked about it, but things stayed the same. We had sex maybe once a month or so. We still love each other, but things have gotten comfortable.
Recently, she told me that she had bicurious feelings, but wasn't sure. She was confused. Kinda let it go. About a month ago, we had a threesome. Little did I know that the woman we had the threesome with was a woman that my wife had some feelings for. This really confused her because she has never been attracted to a female. She thinks it is because they have so much in common and she is attracted to the person, not the sex of the person.
A couple days after the threesome, she had an affair with the woman and enjoyed. She felt no remorse about it and hates that she does not feel remorse. She is currently seeking counseling and we are trying to save our marriage. We are very open with each other, which could hopefully save our marriage.
Since the affair, she has gone out with the woman, as a friend, and has kissed her goodnight. They have not had sex again, but she thinks about it. She does not want to cheat, but can't stop herself.
What do I do? I love my wife and I want to be with her. I do not want to give her an ultimatum like pick me or her, that is not me. Should it be?
It is hard because we are not just husband and wife but best friends. I do not want to lose the friendship that we have no matter what, but if she does go out wither and something happens, I will begin to distrust her. The our friendship will collapse.
Help me. I do not know what to do.
Recently, she told me that she had bicurious feelings, but wasn't sure. She was confused. Kinda let it go. About a month ago, we had a threesome. Little did I know that the woman we had the threesome with was a woman that my wife had some feelings for. This really confused her because she has never been attracted to a female. She thinks it is because they have so much in common and she is attracted to the person, not the sex of the person.
A couple days after the threesome, she had an affair with the woman and enjoyed. She felt no remorse about it and hates that she does not feel remorse. She is currently seeking counseling and we are trying to save our marriage. We are very open with each other, which could hopefully save our marriage.
Since the affair, she has gone out with the woman, as a friend, and has kissed her goodnight. They have not had sex again, but she thinks about it. She does not want to cheat, but can't stop herself.
What do I do? I love my wife and I want to be with her. I do not want to give her an ultimatum like pick me or her, that is not me. Should it be?
It is hard because we are not just husband and wife but best friends. I do not want to lose the friendship that we have no matter what, but if she does go out wither and something happens, I will begin to distrust her. The our friendship will collapse.
Help me. I do not know what to do.
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