So i started seeing this guy about 8 weeks ago and tbf i kinda rushed in headlong; we had sex on the first date, blah blah. I started getting attached after a couple weeks so i initiated 'the talk' just to know where i stood with him and he said he didn't want anything serious but obviously i wanted a relationship and i made it clear to him.
He told me he'd been hurt too many times but he'd try and get over his issues and see where it goes with us, so i kept seeing him, but that was a month ago and although we're not seeing other ppl and we still do couple-y things he still won't call what we have a relationship and i feel like it might take a long time (if ever) for him to acknowledge me as a girlfriend.
I care for him and i want him to be at that stage where he can commit but i feel like i'm sacrificing what i want so i can hold on to the little i have with him. I want to hold on a little longer but i also don't want to be the idiot being led on forever.
He told me he'd been hurt too many times but he'd try and get over his issues and see where it goes with us, so i kept seeing him, but that was a month ago and although we're not seeing other ppl and we still do couple-y things he still won't call what we have a relationship and i feel like it might take a long time (if ever) for him to acknowledge me as a girlfriend.
I care for him and i want him to be at that stage where he can commit but i feel like i'm sacrificing what i want so i can hold on to the little i have with him. I want to hold on a little longer but i also don't want to be the idiot being led on forever.
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