Hello everyone. Hope someone out there can give me some advice.
I met my current girlfriend seven years ago. We both went to medical school together and fell in love with each other in our first year of university. We've been together ever since and we've been doctors for two years now.
During uni we were often apart for long periods of time (often months at a time) because of going abroad to do electives. We loves each other very much though and stayed in touch all the time and would look forward to being together again. I always thought that I'd marry my girlfriend after graduating.
The past two years things have changed since we started work. I've been finding it much tougher than my girlfriend, because I'm not enjoying the work very much. I find that in reality working as a doctor is quite horrible because of the pressure and liability and inhuman hours. My girlfriend seems to enjoy it much more and wants to be a surgeon.
Were working in different parts of the country right now and I'm finding life very tough at the moment and miss my girlfriend a lot. However, things aren't like they used to be. My girlfriend doesn't seem to miss me as much, she seems more concerned about her career and it looks like she's going to be devoted to becoming a surgeon for the rest of her life. I am very happy that she has found her calling in life, but I don't feel comfortable at the moment because I feel like I don't matter to her anymore and because she doesn't support me or care how upset I get about my career and how tough I'm finding it.
It makes me upset because during uni I used to support my girlfriend a lot. I was a scholar student and I used to to teach my girlfriend a lot and support her when she failed exams. I feel like that now when I need some support I have no one to turn to.
Right now I don't feel like I have a future with her because were both near 30 now but she wants to just concentrate on her career and isn't paying any attention to me, whereas I want to settle down and start a family. Do we have a future?
I met my current girlfriend seven years ago. We both went to medical school together and fell in love with each other in our first year of university. We've been together ever since and we've been doctors for two years now.
During uni we were often apart for long periods of time (often months at a time) because of going abroad to do electives. We loves each other very much though and stayed in touch all the time and would look forward to being together again. I always thought that I'd marry my girlfriend after graduating.
The past two years things have changed since we started work. I've been finding it much tougher than my girlfriend, because I'm not enjoying the work very much. I find that in reality working as a doctor is quite horrible because of the pressure and liability and inhuman hours. My girlfriend seems to enjoy it much more and wants to be a surgeon.
Were working in different parts of the country right now and I'm finding life very tough at the moment and miss my girlfriend a lot. However, things aren't like they used to be. My girlfriend doesn't seem to miss me as much, she seems more concerned about her career and it looks like she's going to be devoted to becoming a surgeon for the rest of her life. I am very happy that she has found her calling in life, but I don't feel comfortable at the moment because I feel like I don't matter to her anymore and because she doesn't support me or care how upset I get about my career and how tough I'm finding it.
It makes me upset because during uni I used to support my girlfriend a lot. I was a scholar student and I used to to teach my girlfriend a lot and support her when she failed exams. I feel like that now when I need some support I have no one to turn to.
Right now I don't feel like I have a future with her because were both near 30 now but she wants to just concentrate on her career and isn't paying any attention to me, whereas I want to settle down and start a family. Do we have a future?
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