I don't know if this is the right thread to post in. But here's my issue.
My husband and I have been married for almost 14 years and have 4 children. Just recently he told me he has a desire to be with someone else. I've been with previous lovers but he's only been with me. He tells me I don't know what it's like to have only been with one person and there's no way that I can understand what he's feeling. He won't explain anything to me as to why he's feeling like this. When I bring it up, he shuts me down. We don't have a very active sex life. It's not because I don't want to. I have a very high sex drive and his is much lower. It doesn't bother him to go months without sex. I can't stand it anymore. As few weeks ago, I bought new toys to spruce things up and NOTHING! :banghead:
I'm now thinking this is more than just a desire to have sex with someone else. It's more than just a curiosity. As you can imagine, I have so many negative emotions going on in my head. I don't feel loved, wanted, desirable, or attractive at all. I feel like he doesn't want me anymore, like I'm the problem. He tells me he loves me and still wants to be with me. But this desire has become increasingly worse. He's afraid he might act on it if given the opportunity. Any thoughts one to why he's feeling this way? He refuses to talk to me about this. I don't know what to do anymore. :confused:
My husband and I have been married for almost 14 years and have 4 children. Just recently he told me he has a desire to be with someone else. I've been with previous lovers but he's only been with me. He tells me I don't know what it's like to have only been with one person and there's no way that I can understand what he's feeling. He won't explain anything to me as to why he's feeling like this. When I bring it up, he shuts me down. We don't have a very active sex life. It's not because I don't want to. I have a very high sex drive and his is much lower. It doesn't bother him to go months without sex. I can't stand it anymore. As few weeks ago, I bought new toys to spruce things up and NOTHING! :banghead:
I'm now thinking this is more than just a desire to have sex with someone else. It's more than just a curiosity. As you can imagine, I have so many negative emotions going on in my head. I don't feel loved, wanted, desirable, or attractive at all. I feel like he doesn't want me anymore, like I'm the problem. He tells me he loves me and still wants to be with me. But this desire has become increasingly worse. He's afraid he might act on it if given the opportunity. Any thoughts one to why he's feeling this way? He refuses to talk to me about this. I don't know what to do anymore. :confused:
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