So I came on here 3 years ago trying to figure out how to cope with my husband cheating on me. He was overseas at the time, and almost lost his job and was facing criminal charges because the OW called fowl play. He was found not guilty, and put effort to get sober and work on himself. I couldn't handle it, I told him I was done with him. It wasn't just the one incident, it was years of lying, staying out drinking, and blaming me for everything that made me done. I told him I was going to see other people. And I did, and I became just as disgusting as him. I became over consumed with attention and met a few people in person, and wound up having my own affair. My husband was trying to work on himself and become a better man, but he was still living apart from us, and I just couldn't believe that he was really going to change after all that bull****. I came clean and told him, I was disgusted in myself after that cloud wore away. He moved back home 7 months ago, and I saw a change in him again. He was acting like that same old person he was before. He wound up leaving for a week to stay by his moms, and we started marriage counseling on Saturday. I snooped his phone, and found out he broke his sobriety a year ago when he was living in MD, and last week he met up with another woman and had made plans to have an ongoing affair when he went for reservist duty with another woman. He lied to me and the marriage counselor and he was going just to try to keep it all from me yet again.
listen. im not asking for sympathy. He ****ed up. I ****ed up. but last week...wtf is that. Why pretend to make the marriage work when you dont want it to?
listen. im not asking for sympathy. He ****ed up. I ****ed up. but last week...wtf is that. Why pretend to make the marriage work when you dont want it to?
Put the internet to work for you.
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