Hi all,
I've posted here before in Coping with Infidelity, after I found out my husband of 10 years has been cheating with multiple women. After I confronted him in July, we talked extensively and he said he does not want to end our marriage. He said he wants to make me happy and to put the past behind us. It has been three months since I found out and he appears to be trying. I took the advice on this site and found googlehistory -- and I found his extensive emails with women which stopped when he closed the account after I found out. I did not tell him I found this. He claims that he has no other accounts and has shared his phone bill with me. Here's where I am right now --I have a list of divorce lawyers which I plan to meet with. I plan to find a way to "spy" on him over the next few months to see if he really truly has stopped all the cheating. After I meet with the lawyer, I plan to tell WH that he needs to give me full disclosure of all email accounts or I will divorce him. This is so sad, I know, but I have to look out for myself at this point. I think he has found ways to continue to hide information from me. I thought of getting a GPS for his car, and since he has an office in a separate building I do not have access to his computer. I think he may be on CraigsList looking for "FWB NSA." Is there a remote keylogger that I could use somehow from my own home computer? I don't think a VAR will work for me. I am past being devastated and simply want to know the truth, and I don't think he will tell me. Every time I try to bring up my fears, he tells me I have nothing worry about, that he is dependable. This is so terrible to go through, and it's supposed to be reconciliation.
I've posted here before in Coping with Infidelity, after I found out my husband of 10 years has been cheating with multiple women. After I confronted him in July, we talked extensively and he said he does not want to end our marriage. He said he wants to make me happy and to put the past behind us. It has been three months since I found out and he appears to be trying. I took the advice on this site and found googlehistory -- and I found his extensive emails with women which stopped when he closed the account after I found out. I did not tell him I found this. He claims that he has no other accounts and has shared his phone bill with me. Here's where I am right now --I have a list of divorce lawyers which I plan to meet with. I plan to find a way to "spy" on him over the next few months to see if he really truly has stopped all the cheating. After I meet with the lawyer, I plan to tell WH that he needs to give me full disclosure of all email accounts or I will divorce him. This is so sad, I know, but I have to look out for myself at this point. I think he has found ways to continue to hide information from me. I thought of getting a GPS for his car, and since he has an office in a separate building I do not have access to his computer. I think he may be on CraigsList looking for "FWB NSA." Is there a remote keylogger that I could use somehow from my own home computer? I don't think a VAR will work for me. I am past being devastated and simply want to know the truth, and I don't think he will tell me. Every time I try to bring up my fears, he tells me I have nothing worry about, that he is dependable. This is so terrible to go through, and it's supposed to be reconciliation.
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