I'm in a long term relationship, but at the moment I'm spending more time at his place, and am realising just how lazy he is.
He won't tidy up after himself, pick up rubbish, or even take his plates to the sink when he's done. Sometimes things can sit there for days.
When he's not working (he works about 16hrs a week) he will stay in bed until gone midday. It's as though the days he's not working, he's just sleeping his life away.
If there's something he needs to get up for, like if we have a day out planned, he can do it. But if he has a free day, or isn't in work until later, he literally achieves nothing. Whereas I'd rather maybe go for a walk or a coffee if we're both off, or go out for lunch or something.
It feels as though he's living the life of a 16 year old, actually. But I don't know how to encourage him to perhaps grow up a little bit and stop just sleeping and sitting doing nothing (says she, on TSR, lol).
I know everyone's different, but it just doesn't seem normal for a grown man to sleep until gone lunchtime. But then again, I never even did that as a teenager, so the whole concept is novel to me anyway!
Put the internet to work for you.
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