I have been with my boyfriend 10 months. We live at the same University but he is in a different halls on campus, however he stays at mine most nights.
We went out last night and when I came back I went straight to bed as I was pretty drunk. Apparently while I was asleep the rest of the people I went out with (including my boyfriend) played truth or dare in the common room in my halls. According to my friend who was there, it fell on my boyfriend and he chose truth. His question was, if you weren't in a relationship which 2 people do you find most attractive in these halls. His answer was 2 of the girls who I live with.
The problem I have with this is that we played the same game during Fresher's week and we both agreed never to play it again on our own because it got so messy and the dares were just ridiculous. And the questions were very sexual which was awkward, and we are quite private people (or so I thought) except when we've had a drink when secrets start pouring out. I didn't say anything that night yet the whole of my halls knows about my sex life because of my boyfriend's outbursts during these games.
The other problem I have with this is I confronted my boyfriend about it this morning and he didn't think it was a big deal. His exact words were "They are beautiful girls, if there is beauty there, then I am going to admire it". But he said just because they are beautiful doesn't mean he wants them sexually.
I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but I still feel really upset about this. My question is am I right to feel a bit miffed or am I just making a big deal out of nothing?
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