I have been married for 8yrs.I got married 2yrs after my 1st wife died.
On reflecton,I don't think I was in my right mind when I got married.
I was struggling to find meaning in life and felt I could find this in religion-Islam.
I was impressed with their devotion and felt it would be good if I could find a woman who would support me in a more spiritual life.
To cut a long story short,I met a younger woman(14yrs younger) who wanted to marry me.She came from a strict Pataan background and basically ran away from home to marry me.
She told me that she never wanted children before and after we married.
Years down the line,she tells me she wants children.I dont.I dont think we get on well,I feel she is controlling and treats me like a child.I dont think it is a good recipie for having children.
She is approaching 38yr and so is thinking time is running out.
When I married,I didn't marry for love and told her a few times,but now I feel that she is persecuting me for not being in love with her and is pressurising me to have children.
I dont love her.
She is trying to say I have wasted her life,because she cannot go home and feels it is too late to meet someone new.
I feel emotionally blackmailed.
Its not looking good.
On reflecton,I don't think I was in my right mind when I got married.
I was struggling to find meaning in life and felt I could find this in religion-Islam.
I was impressed with their devotion and felt it would be good if I could find a woman who would support me in a more spiritual life.
To cut a long story short,I met a younger woman(14yrs younger) who wanted to marry me.She came from a strict Pataan background and basically ran away from home to marry me.
She told me that she never wanted children before and after we married.
Years down the line,she tells me she wants children.I dont.I dont think we get on well,I feel she is controlling and treats me like a child.I dont think it is a good recipie for having children.
She is approaching 38yr and so is thinking time is running out.
When I married,I didn't marry for love and told her a few times,but now I feel that she is persecuting me for not being in love with her and is pressurising me to have children.
I dont love her.
She is trying to say I have wasted her life,because she cannot go home and feels it is too late to meet someone new.
I feel emotionally blackmailed.
Its not looking good.
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