My husband is driving me nuts. I swear I don't know what to do anymore. We've been married 4yrs in October and its been a rough road. My husband is one of the most anal people I have met in by life! I mean anal! It's to the point where I don't even like having some people over, kids especially. When it comes to them touching anything like god forbid they touch the glass on the sliding glass doors or they walk off the front mat with shoes on, they are kids! He starts telling me I shouldn't be letting them do that and goes off on me. He won't say anything in front of the other people, but I will hear about it when they leave. We don't have kids of our own, just 2 cats. I have a very close friend with 2 little girls, 2 and 4yrs old and they don't come over a lot. He is constantly *****ing about everything. Why did you do this??? What did you do that?!? Your not going to leave this here?!? It's constant. It's terrible. I feel like I am walking on eggshells al l the time in by own home. He *****es about my sister having a swing on the backyard because he has to cut the grass. Well she lives here too (she has an apartment in our basement). I mean it's everything! I have never been an angry person but with him I tell and scream and swear. It's just not me. I feel like I am losing myself. I am so sick of him nagging me and I just wish he would realize this. His Dad is this way, nothing was or is ever good enough. His Dad is an abusive ******* and I feel like my H is getting this way. I am not like his Mom though, I do not lay down and take it, but I sit here and think, do I want this for the rest of my life? What will it be like when we have a child? I don't want that child to be treated like this either. It's a terrible feeling. Anyone else every felt like this?
I cannot talk to him about it. He whines and starts to raise his voice and it's annoying as hell. I try to have a conversation with him and nothing works. It ALWAYS turns into a fight and us yelling at each other. I am at my witts end. I don't know how much more I can take before I lose it. As I am writing this he is STILL going on about how I shouldn't let the little girl that was just hear touch the window. I should have told her no. On and on and on...and on! Now he is onto my sister again. She dared clean up the garden and she didn't ask him of he wanted a garden! Urgh!
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I cannot talk to him about it. He whines and starts to raise his voice and it's annoying as hell. I try to have a conversation with him and nothing works. It ALWAYS turns into a fight and us yelling at each other. I am at my witts end. I don't know how much more I can take before I lose it. As I am writing this he is STILL going on about how I shouldn't let the little girl that was just hear touch the window. I should have told her no. On and on and on...and on! Now he is onto my sister again. She dared clean up the garden and she didn't ask him of he wanted a garden! Urgh!
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