Hi
My fiance broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I'm feeling so devastated.
He used to be really in love with me and would do anything for me. We planned to get married this year after 9 months know each other. I know it's too soon but we thought that we didn't need to be in a relationship that long as our previous relationship was 5 years with someone else and we didn't want to waste more time in life. We both really wanted to have our own family, having kids etc.
We met through a dating website and most of the time did long distance relationship. We saw each other only once in a month from 3 days - 2.5 weeks each visit for 9 months.
Last Christmas we spent 2.5 weeks together, and we had a lot of arguments, most of them were my fault. Then on the last day of my visit at his place we broke up, i decided it but then i took my words back and we reconciled again at the airport, he said he would give us a chance.
2 weeks later he told me he couldn't get his feeling back after trying all this time that we were fine. He didn't miss me at all and he didn't love me anymore so he broke up with me over Skype.
I was so totally broken heart and sad, we have put so much effort on our relationship, I have struggled learning his language and I found a job in his country and moving there in few months ahead but he said he would support me as a friend but not as a couple anymore and he doesn't see his future with me.
we didn't contact each other for a week after that until he texted me asking how am I doing ? Am I ok ?
I responded his text a day later and I told him I was sad but he seemed doesn't care. He responded that he still care and offered a Skype talk if I want it. But I refused and texted him sucha long essay about my disappointment and that I ałso ever lost feeling for him several months ago when he was having problem losing his job (but i did lose my feeling because i felt he didnt have character that my ideal guy has, hes too sensitive and attached) but at that time i was still supporting him looking for another job and cheer him up until he got new job and I could grow my feeling back.
By the time I texted him that, my long lost ex boyfriend who I was with for 5 years and moving to another continent but we still remain friends, posted me on Facebook saying he misses me and I responded that I miss him too.
My ex fiancé know that this guy has been my "favorite" ex, and we still liked each other but not to have a future with. My ex fiancé knows that my ex bf is coming back from abroad and him and I plan to meet up after my fiancé broke up with me.
I assume my ex fiance might have seen that posting and it's been 3 days he didn't respond my last message yet. It appears that he hasn't read it yet which I assume he did it on purpose.
My question is, do you guys have any clue what might be in his mind at the moment ? Did he write me that cause he still want me ? Is it possible to have his feeling back ? And is he jealous seeing me talking again with my ex even he's the one who dumped me ??
Deep in my heart I still want my ex fiancé back
Help I need advice!!!
Many thanks in advance!
My fiance broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I'm feeling so devastated.
He used to be really in love with me and would do anything for me. We planned to get married this year after 9 months know each other. I know it's too soon but we thought that we didn't need to be in a relationship that long as our previous relationship was 5 years with someone else and we didn't want to waste more time in life. We both really wanted to have our own family, having kids etc.
We met through a dating website and most of the time did long distance relationship. We saw each other only once in a month from 3 days - 2.5 weeks each visit for 9 months.
Last Christmas we spent 2.5 weeks together, and we had a lot of arguments, most of them were my fault. Then on the last day of my visit at his place we broke up, i decided it but then i took my words back and we reconciled again at the airport, he said he would give us a chance.
2 weeks later he told me he couldn't get his feeling back after trying all this time that we were fine. He didn't miss me at all and he didn't love me anymore so he broke up with me over Skype.
I was so totally broken heart and sad, we have put so much effort on our relationship, I have struggled learning his language and I found a job in his country and moving there in few months ahead but he said he would support me as a friend but not as a couple anymore and he doesn't see his future with me.
we didn't contact each other for a week after that until he texted me asking how am I doing ? Am I ok ?
I responded his text a day later and I told him I was sad but he seemed doesn't care. He responded that he still care and offered a Skype talk if I want it. But I refused and texted him sucha long essay about my disappointment and that I ałso ever lost feeling for him several months ago when he was having problem losing his job (but i did lose my feeling because i felt he didnt have character that my ideal guy has, hes too sensitive and attached) but at that time i was still supporting him looking for another job and cheer him up until he got new job and I could grow my feeling back.
By the time I texted him that, my long lost ex boyfriend who I was with for 5 years and moving to another continent but we still remain friends, posted me on Facebook saying he misses me and I responded that I miss him too.
My ex fiancé know that this guy has been my "favorite" ex, and we still liked each other but not to have a future with. My ex fiancé knows that my ex bf is coming back from abroad and him and I plan to meet up after my fiancé broke up with me.
I assume my ex fiance might have seen that posting and it's been 3 days he didn't respond my last message yet. It appears that he hasn't read it yet which I assume he did it on purpose.
My question is, do you guys have any clue what might be in his mind at the moment ? Did he write me that cause he still want me ? Is it possible to have his feeling back ? And is he jealous seeing me talking again with my ex even he's the one who dumped me ??
Deep in my heart I still want my ex fiancé back
Help I need advice!!!
Many thanks in advance!
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