Ok, I am not in a relationship as such. We broke up about 6 months ago and have been 'seeing' each other for the past 2 months. The question I have is do you think it will be any different?
I visit my ex at his house. We do not meet anywhere else. I go over and perform oral on him, and that is it. We do have the normal talks we used to have at night before going to bed (how our day was and what is going on etc). I have slept there overnight. He says he doesn't want a relationship. When we first started this new arrangement he would not even hug me, but now he holds me, and every now and then he will kiss me, but he does try to avoid that.
We have spoken about this, and he knows how I feel about him and that one day I would like more (I don't want to pressure him. He was alone for many years and I have young children who send him crazy).
We have been talking about sex, and I have never asked him for any more than what we have. Since it has only been oral on him (5-7 times a week), he now admits he loves it much more than regular sex (I think his STD is a real barrier with this) and he can no longer finish if he tries to masturbate.
Is he just using me? He still helps provide for my children when their deadbeat father fails to, so he is still there for us on that level. I don't want anyone else, and I am willing to wait for him. Do men ever change their minds, or is he on too good a wicket right now?
I visit my ex at his house. We do not meet anywhere else. I go over and perform oral on him, and that is it. We do have the normal talks we used to have at night before going to bed (how our day was and what is going on etc). I have slept there overnight. He says he doesn't want a relationship. When we first started this new arrangement he would not even hug me, but now he holds me, and every now and then he will kiss me, but he does try to avoid that.
We have spoken about this, and he knows how I feel about him and that one day I would like more (I don't want to pressure him. He was alone for many years and I have young children who send him crazy).
We have been talking about sex, and I have never asked him for any more than what we have. Since it has only been oral on him (5-7 times a week), he now admits he loves it much more than regular sex (I think his STD is a real barrier with this) and he can no longer finish if he tries to masturbate.
Is he just using me? He still helps provide for my children when their deadbeat father fails to, so he is still there for us on that level. I don't want anyone else, and I am willing to wait for him. Do men ever change their minds, or is he on too good a wicket right now?
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