In need of someone advice and to get it off my chest.
So a female friend of mine has been wanting to meet up and do something together. I've been busy with uni work, but have made time twice now to meet up. The first time she cancelled because something came up and apologised. Then a couple of weeks later she asked to meet up again, but I was busy with exams and said when I would be free. A week passed and she remembered we were supposed to be going for lunch. I couldn't make it so arranged something for this weekend.
It was all agreed then out of the blue she started to ask what we were going to do. This seems a little strange considering it was only arranged 3 days ago, yet she could remember we were supposed to be doing something. She also didn't seem keen to do what was original planned.
This isn't the first time she's done this either, although I was happy to change things if it meant we were both happy. Its making me wonder if she agrees to things to make me happy even though she doesn't want to do them.
So now I'm stuck in a rut because I haven't responded to her last text asking if we could do something different, that was a few hours ago now. Any advice?
So a female friend of mine has been wanting to meet up and do something together. I've been busy with uni work, but have made time twice now to meet up. The first time she cancelled because something came up and apologised. Then a couple of weeks later she asked to meet up again, but I was busy with exams and said when I would be free. A week passed and she remembered we were supposed to be going for lunch. I couldn't make it so arranged something for this weekend.
It was all agreed then out of the blue she started to ask what we were going to do. This seems a little strange considering it was only arranged 3 days ago, yet she could remember we were supposed to be doing something. She also didn't seem keen to do what was original planned.
This isn't the first time she's done this either, although I was happy to change things if it meant we were both happy. Its making me wonder if she agrees to things to make me happy even though she doesn't want to do them.
So now I'm stuck in a rut because I haven't responded to her last text asking if we could do something different, that was a few hours ago now. Any advice?
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