So basically back in September I had unprotected sex one night with a girl I had been seeing briefly - very stupidly I ejaculated. I realised how stupid I had been and took her to a pharmacy to take the morning after pill 13 hours later. She did not come on at all for at least another 4 weeks so for 4 weeks I was freaking out - granted she has an irregular period, and she had also taken the morning after pill just two weeks before so I think it's possible that it messed up her cycle?
Anyway she took a blood pregnancy test 13 days after the second time she took the Morning after Pill which came out negative (we went to see a private doctor together).
According to her she did a home pregnancy test which came out negative, on the doctor's advice, just under two weeks later. At this point I felt relieved and I was back to being able to focus at work etc.
However given the strain this had put on our relationship she decided to end it, 4 weeks after we had unprotected sex. And she removed me from Facebook and Skype.
I'm a bit of a worrier, so in early November (11 weeks after we had unprotected sex) I decided to phone her to ask her if she is pregnant. She said no, told me to get a grip and said to never call her again.
Since then, as of today, it has been 3 and a half months since we had unprotected sex. She hasn't contacted me at all.
Realistically am I in the clear? Am I just being paranoid? I cannot stop kicking myself for being so stupid that night. I have definitely learned from this. I have had sex a couple of times since the incident (once with her and once with another girl) but each time I use a condom and I also pull out because I am so paranoid.
Appreciate your opinions guys. Thanks.
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