How many times, here on TAM, have we seen people who have attempted to reconcile after infidelity, only to fail? How many times have we seen people who have divorced after infidelity, who wished that they had tried to reconcile? The answer is "Too many" to both questions.
This thread is about the most important decision of all. The decision to R or D. This decision is made by BOTH the WS and the BS. A lot has been written about HOW to R, or HOW to D. But what goes into the decision , itself?
I am interested in both sides, those who chose to R and those who chose to D and what factors lead you to make that choice. Plus, were you the BS or WS and did your SO agree with your decision or not.
As background, Some of you are aware of my situation. I immediately chose divorce, then 2 1/2 years afterwards, we attempted to reconcile. We have since separated , permanently, but both feel that our reconciliation was successful.
What are your stories? How did you come to your decision?
This thread is about the most important decision of all. The decision to R or D. This decision is made by BOTH the WS and the BS. A lot has been written about HOW to R, or HOW to D. But what goes into the decision , itself?
I am interested in both sides, those who chose to R and those who chose to D and what factors lead you to make that choice. Plus, were you the BS or WS and did your SO agree with your decision or not.
As background, Some of you are aware of my situation. I immediately chose divorce, then 2 1/2 years afterwards, we attempted to reconcile. We have since separated , permanently, but both feel that our reconciliation was successful.
What are your stories? How did you come to your decision?
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