I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months now (not very long, I know, which I guess makes my question even more stupid) and I really don't know what to do.
Basically, I'm on my year abroad in China at the moment, and I met my current boyfriend through one of my classmates from uni. We were instantly attracted to each other, and made it official not long after. We see each other at least once a week and I do genuinely enjoy the time we spend together. We're even planning going to Beijing next month, when we both have time off uni.
However, this is the problem. I feel I don't love him like he loves me. We both know I'll have to go back to the UK in summer, meaning we'll most likely break up. However, I feel really bad about leading him on as I know it'll break his heart when I leave. My sex drive's also plummeted, making me feel he knows I'm not entirely happy.
What to do TSR? I'm really confused as to what to do as he is the person I'm closest to but I really don't want to hurt him when we have to break up.
Basically, I'm on my year abroad in China at the moment, and I met my current boyfriend through one of my classmates from uni. We were instantly attracted to each other, and made it official not long after. We see each other at least once a week and I do genuinely enjoy the time we spend together. We're even planning going to Beijing next month, when we both have time off uni.
However, this is the problem. I feel I don't love him like he loves me. We both know I'll have to go back to the UK in summer, meaning we'll most likely break up. However, I feel really bad about leading him on as I know it'll break his heart when I leave. My sex drive's also plummeted, making me feel he knows I'm not entirely happy.
What to do TSR? I'm really confused as to what to do as he is the person I'm closest to but I really don't want to hurt him when we have to break up.
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